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Thirst trap

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A thirst trap is a type of social media post intended to entice viewers sexually.[1][2][3][4] It refers to a viewer's "thirst", a colloquialism likening sexual frustration to dehydration, implying desperation, with the afflicted individual being described as "thirsty".[4][5][6] The phrase entered into the lexicon in the late 1990s, but is most related to Internet slang that developed in the early 2010s. Its meaning has changed over time, previously referring to a graceless need for approval, affection or attention.[7][6]

History

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The term thirst trap originated within selfie culture,[8] though its precise origins remain unclear. An early use of the phrase appears in the 1999 book Running for Dummies by Florence Griffith Joyner and John Hanc, where it referred to the deceptive sensation of thirst being quenched after initial fluid intake, advising continued hydration to avoid the so-called "thirst trap."[9]

The modern usage of thirst trap resurfaced around 2011 on platforms such as Twitter and Urban Dictionary, coinciding with the growing popularity of Snapchat, Instagram, and dating apps like Tinder and Grindr.[7]

In 2011, Urban Dictionary defined it as "any statement used to intentionally create attention or 'thirst'."[10]

By 2018, the term had entered mainstream discourse, appearing in outlets such as The New York Times and GQ without the need for explanation.[7]

Usage of the term

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Often, the term thirst trap describes an attractive picture of an individual that they post online.[11]

Thirst trap can also describe a digital heartthrob.[7] For instance, Canadian prime minister Justin Trudeau has been described as a political thirst trap.[7][12][13]

It has also been described as a modern form of "fishing for compliments".[5]

Motivation

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Thirst trapping may be driven by a variety of motives.[14][15] Individuals often seek attention through "likes" and comments on social media, which can offer a temporary sense of validation and improved self-esteem.[14] It can also serve as an outlet for expressing one's sexuality or enhancing a personal brand.[14][15] In some cases, sharing such content may provide financial gain.[15] Others might post thirst traps to cope with emotional distress, such as after breakup,[16] or to spite a former lover.[17] Sharing a thirst trap has also been used as a way to connect in times of social isolation (e.g. COVID-19 pandemic).[18]

From a physiological standpoint, endorphins and neurotransmitters like oxytocin and dopamine are released during sexual contact. It has been speculated outside of the academic setting that sharing and engaging with thirst traps may elicit similar pleasure responses.[18]

Methodology

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Methodologies have developed to take an optimal thirst trap photo.[19][20][21] Reporting for Vice magazine, Graham Isador found several of his social network contacts spent a lot of time considering how to take the best photo and what text they should use. They considered angles and lighting. Sometimes they made use of the self-timer feature available on some cameras.[15] Often, body parts are put on display without being too explicit (e.g. bulges of male genitalia, breast cleavage, abdominal muscles, pectoral muscles, backs, buttocks).[10][14][22]

Often, the thirst trap is accompanied by a caption.[8][23] For instance, in October 2019, actress Tracee Ellis Ross posted bikini pictures on Instagram with a caption that included the message: "I've worked so hard to feel good in my skin and to build a life that truly matches me and I'm in it and it feels good. ... No filter, no retouch 47 year old thirst trap! Boom!"[23]

On Instagram, #ThirstTrapThursdays is a popular tag.[8] Followers reply in turn after a posting.[10]

Variations

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"Gatsbying" is a variation of the thirst trap, where one puts posts on social media to attract the attention of a particular individual.[24][25] The term alludes to the novel The Great Gatsby where the character Jay Gatsby would throw extravagant parties to attract the attention of his love interest, Daisy.[25] "Instagrandstanding" is an alternative name for this.[26][27]

"Wholesome trapping" has developed, where one posts pictures of more meaningful aspects of life, such as spending time with friends or doing outdoor activities.[28]

Criticism

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Psychotherapist Lisa Brateman has criticized thirst traps as an unhealthy method of receiving external validation.[10][29] This desire for external validation can be addictive.[29]

Thirst traps can cause pressure to maintain a good physical appearance, and therefore cause self-esteem issues.[14][29] Additionally, thirst traps are often highly choreographed and thus present a distorted perception of reality.[14][29] The manufacturing of thirst traps can be limited when one enters a relationship or with time as the body ages.[30]

In some cases, thirst traps can lead to harassment and online bullying.[17][31] In April 2020, model Chrissy Teigen posted a video of herself wearing a black one-piece swimsuit, and she received a multitude of negative comments that constituted bullying and body shaming.[32][33]

See also

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Look up thirst trap in Wiktionary, the free dictionary.

References

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  2. ^ "thirst trap". Cambridge English Dictionary. Archived from the original on May 4, 2022. Retrieved June 9, 2020.
  3. ^ Young, Sarah (December 20, 2016). "Ghosting, Benching and DTR: Here's what these 13 dating terms really mean". The Independent. Archived from the original on May 7, 2022. Retrieved June 10, 2020.
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  5. ^ a b Favilla, E. J. (2017). A World Without 'Whom': The Essential Guide to Language in the BuzzFeed Age. Bloomsbury. p. 143. ISBN 978-1-63286-759-9. Archived from the original on June 21, 2023. Retrieved June 8, 2020.
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  9. ^ Joyner, F. G.; Hanc, J. (1999). Running for dummies. Foster City, CA: IDG Books. p. 39. ISBN 978-0-7645-5096-6. Archived from the original on April 17, 2025.
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  14. ^ a b c d e f Suckling, Lee (March 8, 2018). "Lee Suckling: How to tell if you've been caught in a 'thirst trap'". The New Zealand Herald. Archived from the original on June 11, 2020. Retrieved June 9, 2020.
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  18. ^ a b Bergado, Gabe (April 3, 2020). "Everybody's Horny and Thirst Trapping Like There's No Tomorrow Because of the Coronavirus Pandemic". Teen Vogue. Archived from the original on June 11, 2020. Retrieved June 9, 2020.
  19. ^ "5 Tips For Taking The Perfect Thirst Trap That'll Make You Feel So, So Sexy". Elite Daily. November 30, 2017. Archived from the original on June 11, 2020. Retrieved June 9, 2020.
  20. ^ Pugachevsky, Julia (August 27, 2019). "How to Take the Perfect Thirst Trap Photo – Everything to Know About Thirst Trapping". Cosmopolitan. Archived from the original on June 11, 2020. Retrieved June 9, 2020.
  21. ^ Abrams, Margaret (November 14, 2018). "The 6 types of celebrity thirst trap". Evening Standard. Archived from the original on June 11, 2020. Retrieved June 10, 2020.
  22. ^ Hirschlag, Allison (February 25, 2020). "How to Spot a Toxic Thirst Trap Before It Lures You In". Medium. Archived from the original on June 11, 2020. Retrieved June 10, 2020.
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  29. ^ a b c d Kheraj, Alim (December 28, 2017). "How to Save Yourself from a Thirst Trap". GQ. Archived from the original on June 11, 2020. Retrieved June 9, 2020.
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  32. ^ Torres, Krista (April 27, 2020). "Chrissy Teigen Shared A Video Of Her Body, Got Shamed for Having a 'Square' Shape, and Is Now Talking About How Society Has Conditioned Us to Like 'Surgically-Enhanced Curves'". BuzzFeed. Archived from the original on June 11, 2020. Retrieved June 10, 2020.
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